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Psychologist says Britney Spears’ naked shots are 40 ‘regaining control’ after conservatorship

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Full frontal nude photos posted by Britney Spears to her 41 million followers on Instagram yesterday – which have sparked fears about her mental health amongst her loyal fanbase – could be a sign the star is trying to ‘regain control of her lost youth’, following the trauma of conservatorship, a top psychologist has claimed. 

The 40-year-old star, who’s pregnant with her third child by personal trainer fiance Sam Asghari, left fans fearing for her state of mind after she posted a flurry of nine photos in quick succession to her Instagram account on Monday.  

The eye-opening images show Spears covering her naked breasts with her hands and using an emoji loveheart to hide her genitals. Each photo was similar, taken on holiday in Mexico before she fell pregnant, but with different filters.  

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One of the nine naked photographs posted by Britney Spears to her Instagram account this week. Psychologist Dr Audrey Tang told FEMAIL Britney has 'aged but hasn't grown' saying she endured a 'scripted' childhood as a Disney star and then endured a life under coercive control in early adulthood

One of the nine naked photographs posted by Britney Spears to her Instagram account this week. Psychologist Dr Audrey Tang told FEMAIL Britney has ‘aged but hasn’t grown’ saying she endured a ‘scripted’ childhood as a Disney star and then endured a life under coercive control in early adulthood

Worrying: Britney posted the shots with a simple caption, but fans had a lot more to say about the exhibitionist images, with one suggesting they were a 'cry for help'

Worrying: Britney posted the shots with a simple caption, but fans had a lot more to say about the exhibitionist images, with one suggesting they were a ‘cry for help’ 

'Aged but hasn't grown': Dr Tang suggests that it's unlikely the exhibitionism has come from a strong place, saying it's likely that the star, who is pregnant with her third child, is trying to relive her twenties when everything she did was controlled by her father Jamie

‘Aged but hasn’t grown’: Dr Tang suggests that it’s unlikely the exhibitionism has come from a strong place, saying it’s likely that the star, who is pregnant with her third child, is trying to relive her twenties when everything she did was controlled by her father Jamie

The psychologist also suggested that Britney may not be 'ready to take advice from therapists' or partner Sam Asghari and doesn't have the privacy to make mistakes in a 'safe space'

The psychologist also suggested that Britney may not be ‘ready to take advice from therapists’ or partner Sam Asghari and doesn’t have the privacy to make mistakes in a ‘safe space’ 

The pregnant singer captioned her first post, which contained six nude shots: ‘Photo dump of the last time I was in Mexico BEFORE there was a baby inside me,’ adding: ‘Why the heck do I look 10 years younger on vacation.’ 

Minutes later, three more extremely similar photos appeared. 

Within minutes, fans had expressed their concern for the singer’s mental health, saying: ‘This girl she is sick, she is crying for help,’ one wrote, while another said: ‘I’m pretty sure that conservatorship was in place for a reason.’

Others questioned why her partner hadn’t advised her against the photo dump.  

Psychologist Dr Audrey Tang, author of The Leader’s Guide to Resilience, told FEMAIL that the exhibitionist snaps could be a sign of Britney still trying to find a way to break free following the 13-year conservatorship placed upon her by her father. 

Britney CAN still find mental health happiness after the shackles of Jamie Spears’ conservatorship

Fans fearing that Britney Spears, finally in control of her own affairs at the age of 40, might tip into freefall without the strict regime of the conservatorship should be reassured that the star can achieve strong mental health again, although it will take work, says a psychologist. 

Dr Audrey Tang told FEMAIL: ‘The latest photos might seem like a cry for help but I’m not sure Britney is even thinking in that way. 

‘She’s still processing the conservatorship and her life since she was a child star – when you’ve been gaslit for that long, you often emerge not knowing who you are.’

Re-build: People who've been through the trauma of gaslighting can rebuild but it takes work, says Dr Tang (Pictured: Ryan Gosling and Britney Spears as child stars in The Mickey Mouse Club)

Re-build: People who’ve been through the trauma of gaslighting can rebuild but it takes work, says Dr Tang (Pictured: Ryan Gosling and Britney Spears as child stars in The Mickey Mouse Club)

Therapy can help get her life back on track though, Dr Tang says, with the help of a technique known as acceptance and commitment therapy. 

She explains: ‘It’s about not going over the coercive control, it’s about understanding why she feels the need to post these photos now. I believe Britney’s still in a form of survival mode, just because the conservatorship has ended, it doesn’t mean that she’s stopped fighting.

‘If she stops fighting for a minute, and sit with her emotions, she’ll recognise that the need to post such images is simply ‘urge-surfing’. Therapy is about trying to choose a different behaviour to fill the void that’s happening.

‘It’s not easy to get through the multitude of emotions someone might feel after being in a situation like this but you can find ways to begin understand how you chose to survive and how those choices don’t need to keep happening again.’ 

Dr Tang also suggested the star may be ‘urge-surfing’, finding impulsive ways to get attention from fans. 

Since the legal battle, which made headlines across the globe and saw Spears given back control over her finances, and medical and personal decisions, the singer has announced an engagement, her pregnancy and been vocal about how she thought her head ‘might explode’ at being censored by the 13-year-long conservatorship.

Dr Tang explains: ‘When you’ve got someone who’s grown up with a very scripted lifestyle, you’ve got someone who’s never learned what freedom is actually like. 

‘The problem is she can’t learn to do that now in a safe space and experiment, so she’s playing it all out in the public eye. And because it’s Britney, the fall-out is going to be a lot bigger than it would be for anyone else. It’s like a mid-life crisis times ten.’ 

Spears pictured with her parents Lynne and Jamie Spears in Las Vegas at the height of her pop fame; the singer is now estranged from both of her parents after a court declared the conservatorship placed upon her null and void in November last year

Spears pictured with her parents Lynne and Jamie Spears in Las Vegas at the height of her pop fame; the singer is now estranged from both of her parents after a court declared the conservatorship placed upon her null and void in November last year 

The pregnant star's fiance, Iranian personal trainer Sam Asghari, is unlikely to want to advise her not to post such photos, says Dr Tang, because he's been in a supportive role against her father during their relationship and is likely 'to not want to emulate the control of her dad.'

The pregnant star’s fiance, Iranian personal trainer Sam Asghari, is unlikely to want to advise her not to post such photos, says Dr Tang, because he’s been in a supportive role against her father during their relationship and is likely ‘to not want to emulate the control of her dad.’

‘Sam Asghari is in a very awkward situation because he wants to give her a choice. He doesn’t want to emulate the control of her father…’ 

Spears has recently vented about feeling silenced during the years the conservatorship was in place, saying she ‘felt paralyzed’ by ’15 years of secrets’. 

‘I was a f*****g nun in my conservatorship!!! The prayer of silence I’ve endured would possibly offend the Pope.’

Describing how Britney is now kicking back against having much of her childhood and adulthood snatched away from her, psychologist Dr Tang says the star could be trying to emulate the attention she received during the height of her pop career – but in ways that might see her mental health falter.  

‘She’s grown in up in the public eye, and she’s adapted her life to need that attention – if you haven’t been able to get it in any other way, that’s the way you do it.

‘A child who knows that they succeed in something will get there parents love and it’s the same sort of thing here. Britney thinks “If I post something that gets me likes, that’s something that will get me attention and likes”‘.

‘On the issue of maturing of decisions and making choices, she’s probably still in her twenties. She hasn’t been able to go through any of that, she’s aged but she’s not grown. You can’t expect someone to just grown up 20 years.  

Dr Tang says that even with a crack team of therapists and psychologists around her, Britney may still not be ready to listen to them because she wants to finally be able to make her own mistakes. 

Seeing double: Fans appeared to be concerned as to why Britney had posted the same image six times, with slightly different filters on each post

Seeing double: Fans appeared to be concerned as to why Britney had posted the same image six times, with slightly different filters on each post 

'She is crying for help': Britney Spears sparks concern after posing fully nude in SIX identical pictures on Instagram as worried fans beg her to stop

‘She is crying for help’: Britney Spears sparks concern after posing fully nude in SIX identical pictures on Instagram as worried fans beg her to stop

Concerned: Fans flocked to comment section worried about the pop star, wanting to know why she had posted the same image several times

Concerned: Fans flocked to comment section worried about the pop star, wanting to know why she had posted the same image several times

Coupled up: Later, her fiancé Sam posted a sweet photo of them together. He sat in a chair and cradled his future wife while she wore a striped dress. He captioned it with king and queen emojis

Coupled up: Later, her fiancé Sam posted a sweet photo of them together. He sat in a chair and cradled his future wife while she wore a striped dress. He captioned it with king and queen emojis

Psychologist Dr Audrey Tang, author of The Leader’s Guide to Resilience, says Spears' exhibitionism could be a sign of her still trying to find a way to break free of her father

Psychologist Dr Audrey Tang, author of The Leader’s Guide to Resilience, says Spears’ exhibitionism could be a sign of her still trying to find a way to break free of her father

Estranged from both of her parents, and at war with her sister Jamie Lynn Spears – whom she has been feuding with over her tell-all memoir – the star can’t rely on family in the way that most of us do, says Dr Tang. 

One fan commenting on the naked photos felt as though personal trainer Asghari, her long-term partner, should have stepped in to prevent the star from posting the revealing images, writing: ‘If your man had respect for u he’d never let you post half things you do! Leave some mystery…’ 

However, Dr Tang says it’s likely to be hard for the 28-year-old Iranian personal trainer to intervene because he fears appearing controlling like her father. 

She says: ‘He’ll be in a very awkward situation because he wants to give her a choice. He doesn’t want to be the same as her dad. 

‘He will have been that support who she could trust and turn to – he’s likely to not want to emulate the control of her father. If her need for validation and attention isn’t fulfilled, then his advice, no matter how good it is, isn’t going to be listened to.’

The couple are expecting their first child together later this year. Britney has two sons Sean Preston, 16, and Jayden James, 15 from her previous marriage to Kevin Federline. 

Silenced: 'I was a f*****g nun in my conservatorship!!! The prayer of silence I've endured would possibly offend the pope' she wrote

Silenced: ‘I was a f*****g nun in my conservatorship!!! The prayer of silence I’ve endured would possibly offend the pope’ she wrote

Rant: In the same post she also ranted about her 13-year-long conservatorship and feeling silenced during those years

Rant: In the same post she also ranted about her 13-year-long conservatorship and feeling silenced during those years

Effusive: She posted more photos in the same spot with a slightly different position later in the day while writing, 'I love you all SSSSSSSSSOOOOOOOOOO MUCH!!!!'

Effusive: She posted more photos in the same spot with a slightly different position later in the day while writing, ‘I love you all SSSSSSSSSOOOOOOOOOO MUCH!!!!’

In November last year, after a highly publicized legal battle, Britney was finally given back control over her finances, and medical and personal decisions with the termination of ther= 13-year-long conservatorship. 

She received an outpouring of support from her die-hard fans who helped start the #FreeBritney movement, which is thought to have helped free the star from her father Jamie Spears. 

Yet some fans now seem concerned about the pop star’s behavior on her social channel, with one writing: ‘Anyone else here legitimately concerned?’ 

‘I really wished you would stop doing this. You keep proving that bit of an odd instability exists,’ another wrote.

A concerned fan added: ‘Starting to think those who were in control perhaps should have stayed in control…’ 

‘My teenage daughters said this looks forced… please please explain! This isn’t normal behavior!!’ another added. 

One fan suggested that Britney should keep the explicit shots for an OnlyFans account, writing: ‘At least make a only fans page. I love Britney but she got two big boys who can see this.’ 

The concerning posts came after the singer announced she was taking a break from social media on April 24. 

However, the break barely lasted a day after she then shared a video of her trying on an outfit.

The singer is certainly known for quirky social media antics that have ranged from attacking her family to posting videos of her dancing and trying on outfits. 

In April this year, she revealed news about her pregnancy. : ‘So I got a pregnancy test … and uhhhhh well … I am having a baby,’ she wrote. 

Sam also confirmed the pregnancy news, referring to the popstar as a ‘lioness’ and sharing a painted image of two lions with their cub.

He wrote: ‘Marriage and kids are a natural part of a strong relationship filled with love and respect.

‘Fatherhood is something I have always looked forward to and I don’t take lightly. It is the most important job I will ever do.’

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